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Originally Posted by Berries
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I'm sorry I came to this thread so late.
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.
If I remember correctly (and i apologize if I am remembering incorrectly) you are having "feelings" for your T? If so, you are NOT ALONE. I have been through having intense romantic and/or intense parental feelings for a therapist. It is a difficult thing to go through. And it does make you want to SCREAM!!!!
I don't have any advice. Just wanted you to know I understand and you aren't the only one.  |
 It's not unusual for clients/patients to develop feelings for their Ts - you are finally connecting with a (hopefully) truly caring individual who is focused on you, someone who is concerned for your welfare and only wants to help you. That is a very powerful experience especially for those of us who feel alone and afraid. Don't beat yourselves up over it - just recognize it for what it truly is and be glad that someone or something is able to inspire such intense emotions in you - it means you're still alive and able to connect with others. No need to feel ashamed - this is a perfectly normal human response. Hugs to all.
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"I walked a mile with Pleasure; she chattered all the way, But left me none the wiser for all she had to say. I walked a mile with Sorrow and ne'er a word said she; But oh, the things I learned from her when Sorrow walked with me!"
(Robert Browning Hamilton; "Along The Road")
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