He made a big deal about a minor accident she had about a month ago. He has no financial stake in this at all, he lives with her in her house and does not contribute to the household income. I asked her in passing why she'd put up with this behavior, she never really answered so I think she probably doesn't want to talk about it.

I truly wish I could be more like her. I get so frustrated and irritated relatively easy and she's just able to take it all in stride.