Kimmy-

Hi again.

I think the problem with finding a third party to help is that as a rule I am pretty private - I find it very very difficult to get into my personal life with people - even very close friends. it makes everyone crazy how carefully I guard my life - folks that know me joke that I'll have "I don't want to talk about it" inscribed on my headstone-- they are probably not too far off base.

I know it is not th healthiest way of coping - and apparently has not worked all that well - but I have gotten annoyed with friends who ask what I did the night before - let alone some person who really wants into my psyche...