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I agree with fallenangel...you can tell what you want to in your own time. I didn't disclose SI to my T for...maybe a year?? It was something that happened so infrequently, and I just didn't feel comfortable telling him. When the time was right to share it with him, I did. And he was SO good about it, and I didn't regret it at all.

There were some things I told T right away, and some (major) things I didn't tell him until over a year in a half in therapy. T always tells me to listen to my own internal wisdom, and to choose my own pace for sharing things with him. I think that helped me to build trust and to not get (too) overwhelmed.

Hugs to you, googley.