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Sep 01, 2009, 01:26 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2009
Posts: 49
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Hi sw628,
With all that anger directed towards your T, I think rainbow8 is right, you should talk to your T. If you like your T, the only way to get back to the relationship you once had or would like to have, is to discuss your feelings w/ her. It seems this anger started when she went on vacation, then that is where you have to start in discussing your deep-seated feelings, esp. since it is "eating you up". I think a lot of us have strong feelings of abandonment when our T's go on vacation; 3 weeks does seem like a long time. However, this is something that is going to happen--T's have their own families and lives. I know I would have a hard time not seeing my T for such a long time, but maybe the next time your T goes on vacation, maybe you can ask her if you can keep in contact w/ her, either thro' email or occasional phone calls, or even postcards. And don't worry about not making sense; this is exactly the reason why you should talk to your T: to make sense out of all these feelings. Take care... 
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