no i didnt take it as an attack. I know what I say gets misunderstood even off line. Im originally from a place where the wording of things is not like alot of other people so when I first joined here alot of people didnt understand how I talk, Through schooling I am learning how to talk for the carreer a therapist that I have chosen, Im trying to leave behind the dialect and poverty I was born and raised in but Im not always successful in wording things right. I preveiw my posts then the moderators check my posts before they go through to being posted. though I would like to be off moderation just to be like everyone else here, I am glad to have any and all help in wording my posts. sometimes i miss something and sometimes the moderators miss something so Im glad when someone lets me know they dont understand what I posted. I may make it more out of wack trying to explain what I mean but I would rather try then not try at all. Thanks for telling me you didnt understand what I wrote.