I have been sexually abused BIG time when I was younger.........was very sexually active as a teenager, it was more of a power thing then enjoying........then got married and had 3 kids but now kids are older and I am older and in Therapy for my past issues and I have not had sex with my hubby for 2 years now......shhhhh do not come down on me please...........he is ok with it and we are putting it on hold to grow a healthier relationship...........we had one built on sex nothing more and now we are in Therapy to learn something new and this is HARD work....
sorry for rambling