that stinks

has T given you any evidence that she thinks you've "overstayed your welcome"?

"friends" who use us are the pits, my guess is THEY do not care
because they are only able to care about themselves
which isn't about us
its about them
and their tentacles
and their dysfunction
throwing things away sounds like a good plan...
bring the dumper along

and bring some fresh good stuff to replace it, maybe some peaches and strawberries?

GIGO