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Sep 01, 2009, 12:39 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: Ontario Canada
Posts: 98
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I don’t know what happened two years ago, but I can see something from fifty years ago that sounds pretty horrible to me.
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Originally Posted by white_iris
After T session today, my heart is heavier than before.
Some things revealed
nothing really horrible--but very scary things for a 5 yr old.
it's ok now--bad man isn't coming back, won't shoot me or dad--
dad won't shoot anyone again (shot an intruder in the hand after intruder
shot at him and grazed him......little one says daddy wouldn't have got shot
if she stayed under the bed like he said--some guilt there.)
No comforting after the incident. Just a good spanking for not obeying
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Home invasion, shots fired, lives in danger. Go hide under the bed. Should have stayed under the bed! Should have kept hiding. No consoling, no consideration for your feelings. Punished for disobeying. If that’s not traumatic, I don’t know what is.
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Originally Posted by white_iris
feeling the need to hide
be held
talk
cry
go silent
give up
scream
and other stuff
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I’m no expert, but from the outside looking in, doesn’t all this stuff seem to relate?
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