I do not know what I am doing wrong. And am really mad at the media for the way they tell young girls how the should behave and what guys to pick, and who are losers and who are cool. Personaly I hate those two perspectives "cool" and "loser" those things do not tell the truth about who the person really is. I feel like am a nice guy, I am not a jerk. I ahve had only one girlfriend before and that was in 6th grade! There was no romance. I need advice. I am not desperate, don't get me wrong. But it is my human instinct to be interested in girls.