Thanks for the support and encouragement.

Sadly, I spoke too soon. My spouse came home, ate supper, watched an hour of tv and then did the whole miserable intimidation, scolding, guilting routine again. He listed the ways he has been hurt and offended by us. he never listenend to us at all. He kept pulling everything I said - after I sat in silence for over an hour.

He told us he plans to keep this up and it makes me feel sick inside. I feel bullied. he acts too "holier than thou". It's making me feel so distressed. my mom used to use the "deep freeze" treatment when she was angry with me also.

What makes me Soooo mad is that he is demanding I do it his way to prove I love him and yet he has acted with NO love for me/us insiders.

I don't know what to do, I feel afraid.

leslie/littles(we hates pil. he vere bad man. no luv bad man. he hate me cos he say i not reel. bad bad pil. grr. wish i cud bit him very hard. i kno i not spose to hate nobudy, but wat u do wen day is sooo meen and dont bleev u exists?????????)