aww pixie I'm so sorry that he's being such an insensitive manipulative jerk. Keep on hanging in there hon. There's nothing that you can't accomplish over time. Remember the things that your T is helping you with. You don't deserve ill treatment. You deserve better and someday you'll be able to be strong enough to stand up for yourself. I know it's scary because that's something I struggle with too. {sends tons of safe hugs} We're all here for you. Just remember that people don't become mean over night so we don't become strong overnight either but as long as you never give up you'll rise above the mistreatment. Now for me to learn to take my own advice lolz some things are much easier said than done. <333333