There isn't really a strategy that i have or ever did. Yes I am a teenager. And usualy, I am a bit shy, but I am smart. I am not bad looking (and that is not just me judginig) girls often ask my help. I do not ask girls out often, because first of all, I do not want to be a player, I have my reasons.

When i do, i often try to get to know her a bit. But I do not make it look like I am checking her out, I dont want to scare them, cause I know how they can be. Secondly, I find out if she has a boyfriend. Once I was very sure that she was single. However, when I asked her out, she said that she had a boyfriend, in another school. That kind of makes me wonder. And that is not the first time that happened. I simply do not know what I am doing wrong.

I mean I see these guys who probably dont even give a crap how their girlfriend feels or what she wants and they get everything. I wish this would be much simpler. And you suggested that I should be really good at one thing. Well, I am pretty good at singing compared to everyone else in the school. but I do not see how that helps in the beginning. Thank you for your time, you know it kind takes pride and guts to post this, it's just that I like the way people are so positive here.