It's been three years since I broke up with my first love. Now I've been married for a while and I love my husband but lately I've been thinking a lot about my first love. I don't really have anything I want to say to him or anything like that - and I haven't had any communication with him in over a year. My husband thinks that since I'm thinking about my ex I'm still in love with him and I'm not. I'm just wondering if it's normal to still think about someone even if you don't feel the need to ever see them or talk to them again.