Thank you for replying. She was sexually abused two yrs ago by her father. I was sexually abused four years ago by my best friend and that is what triggered my depression and self injury. So we come from a somewhat similar past. I have tried to pass on everything I did when I was recovering. But all she thinks is that its ok to do this even though deep down she knows its wrong and she needs to stop. Her family will never be stable enough for an intervention. Her older sister tried to kill herself years ago and she just got grounded. Absolutely no family support. We could try to get some friends together to talk to her about it. But she isn't the type that like confrontations and I don't want to make things worse. But I think I am going to try the friend intervention. Thank you so much for the advice.