Truth and honesty..... It seems easy and logical, till the moment comes when your wish comes true.... Whe you ask "does this dress make me look fat?" and after so many "NOs" the answer after asking for the truth is YES. When you ask "Do you love me?", and he answers, with no thought about how you would feel,"I love you, but I'm not sure that I'm in love with you". You see, you start to notice his answers start to become more honest, truthful, and finally cruel. you can't have one without the other. If you ask me, to wish for this in a relationship is the end. I asked for the truth from my husbund and wow, did I get it. I think that we all think we want the truth. But what we really want to hear is "yes you look beatiful, I need you, I love you, you're special. "No buts, ifs or ands about it. What happens when your greatest fear becomes THE TRUTH? when you feel afraid to ask a question or make a suggestion?.