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Originally Posted by deliquesce
i remember when i was in high school, and i knew i had to stop, but the thought of stopping was so scary because i didnt know how else to cope. so maybe that is a way you could approach it, if you must - by brainstorming other things she can do instead?
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She said that she has done that. There cases are somewhat the same but I think that getting raped by your father is a bit more devastating because you have to live with your rapist. But it sounds like Damajdancerhas done everything in her power so far to help her friend.
And now knowing this about your friend's family it is going to be very difficult. If you have an intervention it must be with people that love her and care about her. I think it's best if you disclude her family. It would be good if you had everyone wright something to say to her at the intervention. You have to show her how much you care about her and want her to be happy again.
ABE