Edahn~
Thanks, I think your pretty on the spot with your opinion. And I dont feel you've stepped over any boundaries here either. I asked for help, and thats what you've given. Sorry I didnt get back to this sooner. Been a crazy couple weeks and its not over yet lol. I haven't made any kind of effort to reach out to the cousins yet. Still trying to work up that courage to do it. Its getting closer though. I'm hoping to try this weekend. Keep your fingers crossed!!