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Sep 03, 2009, 11:01 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Posts: 2,779
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Originally Posted by Wickerman1
I have been dating this girl for the past 5 years. Last night i made out with a friend of mine. I have always been loyal to my girlfriend. Today i feel like i don't deserve to live and i don't deserve my girlfriend. But i really love her. I can't leave her. Please suggest someway to make me feel better other than telling my girlfriend about it.
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Hello Wickerman and welcome,
I don't know that I know anything to say that will make you feel better. What you did wasn't cool, right? Sounds like you are feeling crappy because what you did was crappy. Was it planned? Was it spurr of the moment? How does your friend feel about what happened? What does this mean for the future, if anything? If you don't tell your girlfriend, is there any way she will find out some other way? You need to ask yourself all these questions.
What if the roles were reversed. What if it were your girlfriend who made out with a friend of hers. Would you want to know? Would you be understanding if the circumstances were reversed?
It sounds like you have a lot of thinking to do about it. I'm not going to tell you whether you should tell your girlfriend or not. I don't know either of you. What I can tell you is that if you need some further support after you think these things over a little further, we are here and will always be happy to help you in any way that we can. 
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 Vickie
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