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Sep 03, 2009, 12:20 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2003
Location: Coram Deo
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((((kris)))) It's quite normal for someone who has DID to lose large chunks of time. Rest assured, some part of you was doing life as usual for "you" during those times.
Someone who has a childhood where perfection is required, or where rules are always changing ...the child will strive to be perfect to avoid punishment and to garner approval (which often never comes) from the parent or teacher.
That you are now recalling that you are missing those chunks of time means that you are healing, that your psyche knows it is safe now to begin to remember.
Please remember that all that is in the past and can't hurt or harm you now. Things may feel real all of a sudden, and that's when you need to use your grounding skills to stay in the here and now, and realize you are safe. 
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