I did not say to go there to meet some guy but to kick up your heels and have some fun. I am very spiritual and find a night or two good for the soul. It doesn't have to be some nasty rock and roll club. It's not about picking up guys or being picked up it is about you and letting that wild woman in you to come out and play. it is about you feeling good and having fun. find your own path but amke sure it isa social path. a place you have to innteract with people. Maybe a nice jazz club with a no sMoking rule. I hate smoke. find an outlet that you can move your body and let your spirit soar.
by the way didn't you know that all the young guys are hitting on mature woman now? I think i read that in people mag? Anyway it is making it hell for us older guys. At least the ones who don't have any money. again take this with a light Heart.