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Old Sep 03, 2009, 02:31 PM
babyfairyfifi babyfairyfifi is offline
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Originally Posted by thunderbear View Post
Well I'm not at all fearful of my husband cheating on me. I know he would never do that. Our split was caused by my relapse on methamphetimine. I cheated about 3 weeks after he kicked me out over my relapse. I do though feel quilty about the affair. But everytime I bring it up to him to talk about my feelings he shuts down and does'nt talk. But as far as me worried about his cheating, I'm not. I trust him.

Maybe your husband isn't the right person to talk to about your feelings over that particular incident? He has too much of his own feelings wrapped up in it , it may be too painful for him to listen, hence him shutting down and not talking. It would be a good thing to talk to your therapist about maybe?

I'm glad you feel able to trust your husband. That is very positive.
Thanks for this!
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