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Old Sep 04, 2009, 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Josie Sullivan View Post
Thank you. I had to take the horrid step of blocking off my instant messaging, block them from e mailing me, stuff like that. I just canniot handle any more fromm them. It hurts me to do this. I loved them so much but there is a line to be drawn in the sand. I allowed myself to let my barriers down and let myself allow them to come too close to me. Stupid me.
It's a new start. You will find friends who support you. Eight years ago, my siblings were doing the same thing, and I was so programmed to "be nice" that my shrink had to give me permission to unplug my phone! And it did hurt to do it. But like you said: "There is a line to be drawn in the sand." There comes a point where you just have to look for something better, for a better way to live, for more compassionate words both inside and outside your head.
Thanks for this!
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