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Hello Wickerman1, and welcome to PC.
I know you want ideas other than to tell your girlfriend. In my opinion in a relationship honesty is thee most important thing. By telling her you will ease your conscious and not worry about her finding out. We’re all human and we make mistakes, by telling her you’re telling her that you can trust her and she can trust you. If she were to find out in any other way she’ll wonder why you didn’t tell her. Is there more going on? The response you didn’t share because it didn’t mean anything will not suffice. Secrets have a way of coming out.
I guess it all boils down to what you and she find most important in a relationship. I’d also do a little soul searching to try to determine what possessed you to engage in this behavior to begin with.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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