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Old Sep 04, 2009, 10:08 AM
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Hunny... Kay is not the host...Kay is another Erik... The host has never even been on this site.

Luce, it's fine to want to talk to the host but irl everyone ONLY wants to talk to the host, no one EVER wants to talk to the Eriks, they come on here to be free to be themselves without people trying to get rid of them and act as if their feelings do not matter.

The host can get out ANY time she wants, it isn't as if she is being held captive, she chooses not to come out on this site because she cares for the Eriks and wants them to have a place they can call their own.

If you wish to speak to the host, please do it more politely. The comment you left saying "You know what, Eriksplus? Instead of talking to Erik this and Christine that, I would really rather say hello to the 17 year old girl that you are instead." sounded very harsh. When E.M. wanted to come on this site and introduce himself and finally start opening up, that comment pushed him away again. Those are the kinds of comments that hurt him and make him not want to come out again.

Everyone is kind to the "alters" on this site, any time a new alter comes out everyone welcomes them with open arms. Why is that not the case with the Eriks? They don't seem to get much support on here. Maybe it's because their a lot different than most which scares people, or people just don't understand or care to understand... Either way they deserve to be treated with just as much respect as the host and everyone else on this site!

I know everyone probably thinks that this is not my business but the Eriks are very close friends irl and on pc. They have no one but me irl who is there for him and it is seeming like on pc there aren't very many people here for them as well. They are doing no harm to the host, she likes where she is and she likes them having a place to go so why can they not get a break?

E.M. I am here for you, all of the Eriks and the rest who are with you! I hope one day people will accept you as I have and see what wonderful people you are! I hope the comments you have been getting have not driven you away and I look forward to getting to know you better and growing out this beard more! Take care!!!

Thanks for this!
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