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Sep 04, 2009, 10:31 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Posts: 2,779
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JerryMichele and AAAAA made some terrific points. The thing that came to my (slightly warped at times) mind is a saying that I once heard:
Marriage is what you do between being in love.
It's definitely an ebb and flo thing, love in a marriage. The only tidbit of advice I can offer is, should your relationship deteriorate to open hostility or obvious discourse between you two, so that the children are noticing and obviously upset by it, then that is another issue. Most therapists agree that if there is constant upset between the mother and father, it is better for the kids that you NOT stay together than for them to witness constant bitterness and fighting.
I hope that marriage counseling might be a viable option for you. Best of luck and constant support. 
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 Vickie
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