Thanks guys for all your help.

I am thinking about trying out your tips next week on this guy my Aunt was telling me about at Borders. He works there and she said he was very friendly and she told me what he looks like and then we thought about what I could ask for help with. I said what about help with a cookbook since I like to cook and just saw the Julie/Julia movie so am thinking about that line.

So what do you think about that. It would be a safe environment he is working so he shouldn't be able to hurt me but I would be able to practice flirting.

Jan