Hi there,
We ladies are always wanting to hear our loved ones say we look sexy, beautiful or something of that sort... this includes me too.. (I kind of glow secretly when someone says I'm beautiful..
But I think by doing that we are being vain... We should not be like that... It is not your outer beauty that is worth your entire life on earth, but the one that is inside you... Your success in life is counted when you are recognized by your inner beauty.. This recognition is not only from your loved ones but also from the people around you.. That is where you should shine...
Your outer beauty is just a small blessing/ gift from God.. If He decides that You'd enough of it, He will take it back. Its just so easy for Him. You could fall face down on the road and alas! you could end up breaking your jaw bone or something.. you could end up burning your face.. And where is your so called beauty??
same with your lovely body that you value..... some small disease could disfigure your whole outlook... so I think the best thing to do is groom your innerself and accordingly your outer self would shine more and more...
good luck...
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Blubaby
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched, but are felt in the heart. - Helen Keller