I've read on here countless times that people write to their "alts" to get answers... I was wondering how this would work so maybe I can try this... What do you do? What do you write? How does it work? Do they come out and write back? Does it even work for people who still are in the "blackout phase" and people whose "alts" don't come out very often?

I'd like to get some answers, not answers to my blackouts since I KNOW I'm not ready for that and fear I may never be. What I would like to know is who they are, about them, their likes and dislikes, just in general who they are.

I would also like to know why they never come out to me unless I'm under extreme stress. And why they feel they must hide from me.

Could someone please help me understand how to write to them so maybe I can learn a little more about them? Thanks for any replies!

Kris