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Old Sep 05, 2009, 01:11 PM
zubidoo zubidoo is offline
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Hi guys,

So I've been dating this girl for a week (I know, not that long), but I really like her. She makes me happy, she's funny, she's beautiful, she has a job, lives nearby, loves videogames too...all of this good stuff. She's told me I'm a really great boyfriend, her mom says I'm the best guy she's dated by far, she says I make her happy and she likes being with me. She says she thinks I'm cute too.

When I asked her out, though, she told me she's bipolar and that's pushed a lot of people away from her in the past but not to take any meltdowns personally.

So during the week (and keep in mind she's also on her period this week) she kept leading me on saying how much she liked me and that we should road trip to her cousins and hang out on labor day, etc. I'm basically feeling great. Yesterday we go on a double date with her friends and everything goes well until we go back to her place and she goes to get the SNES with her friend matt. I notice its taking a long time so I go up to help and her doors closed. I walk in and shes lying on the bed listening to really depressing music and her friend is trying to make her feel better but basically nothing I do is helping her. I go downstairs to play games with her brother and friends despite feeling pretty awkward and useless, and after a while she comes down and plays left 4 dead with us for a bit. I try holding her hand and putting my arm around her but she pushes me away saying she feels claustrophobic and just needs to breathe for a while. Then after playing for a while she gets a text and goes back upstairs for a while leaving me with her brother and friend Hutch to play games and she sends me a text from upstairs saying she needs some space and that she wants to be alone in her room away from everyone for the night but it was nothing i did so don't take it personally.

So I go home and text her saying I made it home and she texts me back saying we need to talk. She calls me and says in a very quiet and sad voice that she's just not feeling the relationship and i tried convincing her that we should take a few extra days to make sure she still feels this way. She tells me the past week was the few extra days in her opinion. I apparently was perfect and she still thinks I'm cute and she does like me and I do make her happy and that nothing I did has anything to do with her breaking up with me and that she still wants to be friends.

Do you guys think that she's having a period/bipolar meltdown and that she might get over this and come back to me? I really can't tell if she really doesnt like me that way or if shes having a period/bipolar meltdown which is causing her to feel this way. The whole week went so well and her friends and parents loved me and we both made each other feel happy. It all just seems totally random.

Any ideas?

Thanks.