I am becoming of the mindset that I don't care either.
Imagine, though, being intimately involved with someone for weeks or months only to find they had read very personal postings early on. It was a violation and deception, and I feel much of the reason for his weird and distancing behavior. Oh, well.....water under the bridge! I'm developing indignance and indifference about the whole matter, and it is a welcomed feeling.
Seeker