Let's face it, when you choose what to wear you are sending a message about yourself. Clothes do project a certain image, and if the image one is projecting is not accurate, then I think they should change it. That is not to say that wearing any style of clothes makes it ok to treat anyone disrespectfully, but I also feel that it's unreasonable to wear a tight shirt and short shorts and expect people to not to think that it means anything. The same goes for a woman wearing a very conservative business suit. She chose to wear that, and people will probably think she is conservative. Yes, moods change, and we tend to change our clothes with our moods, so how you dress doesn't define who you are as an entire person, but I think it says something about you.