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Old Sep 06, 2009, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by lisasays View Post
Ty again.i dont know what is best to keep buried/keep ignoring.there are things i dont think i have in me to forgive.i dont know if its healthy to still be in a place where i think i could only feel better by revenge.
You can only forgive when you are ready to. It's really not good to keep stuff in that hurts you either. When you heal from pain you have got to bring it to the surface, and accept it for what it is. I know that feeling so well with revenge. You need to remember that when you act on revenge all it will do in the long run is hurt you. Revenge lets someone else control you, and the energy will feed onto that person. When you forgive someone that doesn't mean that you need to like them. It just means that your letting yourself free from the hurt.
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Thanks for this!
lisasays