I am okay. I will avoid them at all costs. I think the gf was ok, but i think he screwed her mind up pretty good. He is abusing her everytime she has reached out for help by me and she has not even noticed the pattern. This guy exacts revenge when someone goes against him. Seriously, look up psychopath, he meets the criterion...read it then come back on here and tell me what you think. It is horrifying.