My husband knows I come here. I am totally honest with him (and with the people here). I have no problem with him following me here because in most cases the stuff I post is stuff he already knows I am upset/happy/frustrated about. If its something he doesn't know then it opens the lines of communication.

That being said, I know I am lucky to have a husband like this. I am also lucky to have found this place when our marriage and I needed it most. This place probably helped save our marriage.

Do what you think is best. For me, I am open with him. I don't hide anything. Hiding things and being secretive just leads to suspicion, miscommunication, and hurt feelings.