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Sep 07, 2009, 12:34 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 12,269
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Hi Marjan,
you and I have talked before about your feelings. I think it's very normal to feel sad and messed up after ending a relationship. It's takes time to heal and go through the emotions. I think it's kind of inconsiderate that he brought her to dance class - but men are famous for jumping into new relationships too quickly. Just because he's with her doesn't mean he's happy - rebound relationships rarely work.
People forget that when a relationship ends sometimes people go through a mourning stage. It's okay to feel the sadness, just don't let it consume you. Try to learn how to be happy with out any man and heal yourself before dating again. As women we're more emotional so it's not surprising that you don't feel desire to meet someone new. How can you- until you heal yourself!
If I were you and he brings her again - I would smile and go over and introduce myself. He would be stunned because he hoping to bother you and get a negative reaction. She's not your enemy - she'll be in your shoes soon LOL. Take care of yourself. 
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