Amdx,

I am sorry your going through this. I know that it must be very painful for you. Marriage is very hard work. I know that when I am having issues and my husband smacks me on the butt I get angry also. I'm not so much angry about the smack but more that he doesnt realize that there is something bothering me. My husband and I have been together for 10 years and married for 5 so I think sometimes he should be more in tune with my needs. Maybe that is unrealistic on my part but I truely beleive that my husband is my sould mate. I feel that I am in tune with him so I only expect the same in return.

I am like 1Day. I am open and honest with my hubby about this site. I discuss things with him that I discuss here. Sometimes I will ask for advice here and then approach him about it. But hiding this place from her could lead to trust issues and miscommunications that may further drive a wedge between you.

Have you thought of counselling? This may be an avenue worth exploring.

I wish you the best. Take care.

Jen