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Rain we all deserve to be happy and this guy might beat the odds and turn his life around and become a fine father and significant other. (Do I recall a similar post like this when Jer was an infant?)
BUT and this is the Empire State Buildings of BUT’s, you are in a very difficult place in your life. Just as they recommend against entering a serious romantic relationship when in and following rehab, it’s just as dangerous now. Right now the easiest thing in the world would be to let Prince Charming whisk you away from all of the negative crap you’ve got going on in your life. That is just the worst thing you can do, avoiding your problems only compound them.
Is this Jeremy’s father? If so, being a father is not a part time job that you can just pick up and discard depending upon your mood. Regardless, you have to consider how his presence in your life will affect the outcome of your custody hearing. Right or wrong his errors in judgments will be visited upon you.
No one needs a vacation right now more than you do and a romantic vacation appeals to the romantic me. However the adult me is saying that the issues you’re facing now, physically, emotionally, and financially will still be here when you return on Monday. Wouldn’t YOU be better served by using that time, energy, and money to make your situation easier? If I am out of line I apologize, I just don’t want you to be blinded by the light only to find the darkness much deeper on the other side.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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