Marjan, I'm sorry for what you are going through... No offense in this intended but it was kind of harsh when you talked about how plain her appearance is. Looks are not everything, not even close. The world puts was too much into appearance lately and it's upsetting me. I'm a fairly attractive woman but let me tell you I HATE it. People think because of my looks my life is perfect. I also get into trouble for my face all of the time... Try not to put too much emphasis on her looks, she may be a wonderful person!

One day this pain will start to go away. Eventually you will be less confused and you will move on. Reaching out is a very brave and strong step and I wish you the best of luck!!!

(((((((((((marjan)))))))))