in Marjan's defense - I think she is angry right now and feeling upset and replaced. I agree that we shouldn't compare/judge ourselves or others appearance - I wonder why as women, do we always judge the new wife or new girlfriend - I think we do it to make ourselves feel better.
I agree with Kris9999 - looks aren't relevent and personality is more important. That's why I suggested to Marjan that this new girlfriend isn't her enemy or competition and to smile and say 'hi'. He in a rebound relationship and usually they're not successful longterm anyway.
I think Marjan has been struggling a while with this guy and she should gradually come to peace with the idea of breaking up and each one moving on. I think as women we need to support each other more and not vilify the 'new girlfriends' or 'new wife'. After all any one of us might end up being the "new woman" on the block - right?
Thanks Khris for helping us see the middle ground here. We don't want to get out of hand and hurt each other. Lets understand and support one another.
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