thanks my dear for your reply....
I didn't say that she wasn't pretty or a bad person....I don't know her....
all I was going to say was that It looks like "look" doesn't matter to guys...that's how I'm analyzing myself and my relationship....I always blame myself in relationships....not that Aaron was a good person for me, but in general, I'm not doing right in any relationships....guys are getting attracted to me, but then they leave me...well...most likely because I don't behave well....
At least I'm aware of this...each time, I tell myself in the next relationship I will do better, but then it's like a close cycle, I do what I used to do...that's why I'm petrified to get into a new one....I'm afraid to stay alone for rest of my life....
Thanks again for your support
Marjan
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Originally Posted by kris9999
Marjan, I'm sorry for what you are going through... No offense in this intended but it was kind of harsh when you talked about how plain her appearance is. Looks are not everything, not even close. The world puts was too much into appearance lately and it's upsetting me. I'm a fairly attractive woman but let me tell you I HATE it. People think because of my looks my life is perfect. I also get into trouble for my face all of the time... Try not to put too much emphasis on her looks, she may be a wonderful person!
One day this pain will start to go away. Eventually you will be less confused and you will move on. Reaching out is a very brave and strong step and I wish you the best of luck!!!
(((((((((((marjan)))))))))
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