hi Babysteps... i wonder if you could help me with something... maybe i will have a big 'aha' moment here... there is something in your post i just dont understand... PC is a mental Health Support website with victims of trauma and abuse, some who are victims of stalking in real life and it has made their lives very terrifying so they have come here to find emotional support with their fears and to heal from the experience.... can you help me to understand your 'lol' and how stalking is humorous to you? sorry, dont mean to embarrass but hoped you could enlighten me... best to you always