Hello, I am sexually frustrated. I am frustrated because I want to end my sexual "addiction." I've been sexually active for many years now but lately I've been having a hard time not having sex. Having sex many times a day is ideal but most men I sleep with can't do that because the men I sleep with are usually older like a lot older than me, say 40's, 50's. I went to a sex addicts class but got kicked out cuz I slept with one of the members. I feel bad, but then again I don't. It fullfills me temporarily. Then I move on to the next.

I posted something like this earlier, say a few months ago but it got deleted. I am sexually addicted to pain and can't achieve orgasm with some kind of pain involved, so I want to just have a normal sex life, like not all the time but also not involving where I need to be beat all the time either. I need to get married... find a stable guy who can fix me *sighs* This tires me out just thinking about it and then typing it. I guess I would just appreciate tips on how to have a normal sex life, without extremes.

Thank you,
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