After months of not hearing from him (divorce final oct 5) unless he decides to put it off yet again...... i heard from him yesterday, sweet as pie, charming, but, i ignored his message. I do not feel i am in danger as of now. he has someone else to manipulate now. The problem with cops is, that afterbeing on the force for several years, i think it does affect them, and, those that tend to have these issues anyway, yet only show mild signs of the afflictions, as the years go on, they show them more and more. As our relationship went on he got more and more violent, manipulative, scarey, he is on the force 10 years and still patrol, he will never advance to anything higher, and our marriage was 10 years. he is in the perfect profession for his sickness.
Thank you for your concern. I just found a fabulous job, and will be full time with incredible benefits end of oct.
it feels so good to be away from the person whom, nothing i did was ever good enough.
As far as warning this person that he is involved with? i cannot. I doubt she will listen to me, becouse she will take it as the scorned ex making things up about this wonderful man. Yeah right!