Hi May, glad to have ya here!!!

I went through the same thing in 1993. I married a man 26 years older than me. However, both of my parents "disowned" me. It was a bit easier since there were 3 states and a 12 hour drive between us. It was still very hard though. I didn't have children with that husband, so I can't fathom how you are feeling. I won't tell you how or why it ended, but it did.

Please try your best to remain focused on your husband and child. Yes, its very hard with all this crisis. Right now, you have your family to tend to, and that may help distract for a bit. I know its upsetting to see your husband so frustrated and your child without his grandfather right now. Your Mother seems to be ok with your husband though, right? Hopefully, thats a little burden off your shoulders.

No real advice. If you want to know more about my "story" please PM me. I'd love to hear from you. Just wanted to let you know someone else has been there.

Take care,
Dee