my attraction and interest in people - family, friends, men - is always intellectual only
i never seem to develop any sort of emotional attachment to them
i care a great deal for people in general - and, like everyone else, i care for certain people more than others
but it is a detached caring

normally i am interested in someone for only a short period of time - a few months at most - and then i become bored
it seems that i have learned all about them that i possibly can or want to - and i tire of them
i just reread that and it sounds horrible - but it is true

i have a few people in my life that i truly adore - i often refer to them as the people i've kept - and it seems that once a person gets into this category they will remain there always
i would do anything for them
and yet - it is still not really an emotional attachment

i hate being this way - ive tried for years to figure out how to change it but nothing has worked

any ideas on WHY i am this way with people or HOW i might be able to remedy my situation?

thanks

"Those who Dance are thought Mad by Those who Hear Not the Music."