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Originally Posted by jbug
I finally realized that Rex isn't the man I am going to marry (FYI he is my best friend that I thought I was madly in love with..turns out it was just a huge crush).
I found this out by being mindful of the relationship and realizing that he is going to be a bachelor forever and nothing is going to change that. Yes I will remain his friend he is after all my best friend. I will just begin to look outside the relationship for other needs that should arise.
The main thing that made me realize that he isn't the man for me is when I start to talk about something serious he either changes the subject or tunes me out. This could be all men I don't have that much experience to know. Also I had this dream the other night that I was at his wedding but I was a bridesmaid not the bride and I seemed content with that. There are just little things that come up that make me realize that he isn't the one for me.
Jan
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I am happy for you! Now that you realized it...its nice to have new realizations! They free you up...they ...give you a new start! Don`t they?
Mothering feeling? well i don't know if its a bad idea...may romantic relationships i think have a mothering feeling. I think you should let things be as they are ...you know...search for whatever relationship or don`t search - let it all happen! Trust God trust universe that it will solve itself out - i mean you don't have to expect for anything from him or whatever - you don`t have to search outside it either. Things happen as they should. It will sort itself out. by itself.
Trust this, enjoy everything and need nothing.
Good luck in finding the right man for you!
