Obsessive Compulsive disorder.
He obessed about porn and spending money, he was compulsively behaving on having what he wanted to satisfy his emotional empty body.
Yes we are sure this is what it was along with the narcisissim and bi polar (rapid cycling) and pathological issues, it is quite possible, unless you guys have any other suggestions. Uggggg
i am not here to dwell on him, but rather, maybe i could be of help to someone who is stuck in the same kind of dead end relationship i was.