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Old Sep 10, 2009, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted by lynn P. View Post
Thanks for the reply Marjan. I'm glad your issues aren't related to your past. Maybe even though you knew how your ex BF was, perhaps you thought he would change or settle down. I'm happy you're feeling alot better and glad you have comfort and good coping skills. He's not a nice person and you deserve better!
Thanks Lynn for helping me here....

Ya....I struggled being obsess with him for awhile....and now, I just gave up....and honesty, I think my eyes are open now and I can see the situation better....I think I was wishing he will be the one to end up my search to find a guy...and I was hoping and wishing....but he's not the one....
I even got very strong today and I deleted his phone number from my cellphone....wow...that was very big step....I don't have his number written anywhere!!!! I'm going to delete him from my facebook...He's not a friend anymore so, he shouldn't have stay under my facebook friend's list too....
He's creating so much delusion for me and stopping me from getting involved with a good guy....
I signed up for a dating site yesterday and I want to enjoy my time and go out and date....hope this time, I learn from all the drama I went through, and I choose a right person and things go well....
Since yesterday, I feel lighter and I smile at people and feel relaxed....
Thanks again....I'm sure very soon I need your help again....

with love
Marjan