Thread: Is it bad?
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Old Sep 11, 2009, 05:47 AM
Anonymous29412
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(((((((((((((((((((fallenangel)))))))))))))))))))))

I don't think for a second that this is going to hurt your T's feelings, or make her mad, or make her feel like she's not doing a good job, or any of those things. I think that she will see that you are working hard to find a solution to a problem that is getting out of hand. I bet she will be very proud of you

I know that some T's only want their client to be working with them...I was seeing another T on the side last winter for meditation instruction, but both my T and this other T made it pretty clear that she was there to serve this one role...that if I wanted to "do therapy" with her, I'd have to transition to seeing just her (no thank you!). My T HAS suggested support groups for me, so I guess that doesn't fall into "seeing another T" as far as he is concerned. And I've talked about the idea of seeing someone on the side just to work on ED stuff, and he was totally supportive of that idea. I know that my T wants me to be creative and resourceful and find whatever support I need to help me heal. I'm sure your T feels the same way.

(((((((((((((fallen))))))))))))))) I'm sorry you feel sad. I think this is a GOOD thing, and I think your T will too

Thanks for this!
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